Paul Deloughery

Multi-generational wealth planning: 7 Powerful Ways for Lasting Success 2025

Why Wealth Disappears & How to Preserve It

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Multi-generational wealth planning is a comprehensive strategy to preserve and grow family assets, values, and legacy across multiple generations. It combines financial, legal, and educational approaches to ensure wealth lasts beyond the original wealth creator.

What is Multi-generational Wealth Planning?
* A structured approach to maintaining family wealth beyond 2-3 generations
* Combines legal tools (trusts, estate planning), financial strategies, and family governance
* Focuses on both asset preservation and values/mission continuity
* Addresses the “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations” challenge

Research shows that without proper planning, 70% of wealthy families lose their assets by the second generation and 90% by the third generation. This happens not primarily because of poor investments or legal planning, but due to:

  1. Communication breakdown (60% of failures)
  2. Inadequately prepared heirs (25% of failures)
  3. Lack of shared family mission (<10% of failures)
  4. Poor estate planning or investments (<3% of failures)

With $70 trillion expected to transfer between generations by 2042, the stakes for proper planning have never been higher.

I’m Paul Deloughery, an attorney with 25 years of experience helping families implement multi-generational wealth planning strategies that protect assets while preserving family harmony and values. As the author of “Lasting Wealth: A Revolutionary Method for Family Wealth Transfer,” I’ve guided numerous families through the complexities of creating enduring legacies.

The Wealth Transfer Challenge showing statistics on wealth erosion across generations, with causes of failure (60% communication breakdowns, 25% unprepared heirs, <3% poor planning), and the five key components of successful multi-generational wealth planning: legal structures, family governance, heir education, tax efficiency, and mission alignment - Multi-generational wealth planning infographic

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Multi-Generational Wealth Planning Defined

Multi-generational wealth planning is so much more than just passing money to your kids. While traditional estate planning focuses mainly on “who gets what” after you’re gone, multi-generational planning accepts the full picture of your family’s future.

Think of it as creating a roadmap that guides your family’s wealth journey for generations to come. This comprehensive approach weaves together financial strategies, legal protections, family decision-making systems, and perhaps most importantly—the values and purpose that give your wealth meaning.

As I often hear Paul Deloughery tell families, “Wealth without purpose or preparation is a ticking time bomb for families.” Those words capture why this planning matters so deeply.

Single-Generation Planning Multi-Generation Planning
Focus on asset transfer Focus on legacy preservation
Tax minimization Values transmission
Document-centered Relationship-centered
Event-based (death) Process-based (ongoing)
Financial assets only Financial + Human + Intellectual capital
Minimal heir involvement Active heir preparation

When done right, multi-generational wealth planning becomes an act of stewardship—a way of honoring what you’ve built while empowering future generations to carry forward not just your assets, but your mission and values.

Why Multi-Generational Wealth Planning Matters

We’re in the midst of what experts call the “Great Wealth Transfer”—an unprecedented $84 trillion in assets changing hands over the next two decades. This represents the largest movement of wealth in modern history, and without proper planning, much of it could disappear within a generation or two.

The Williams Group finded something surprising in their research: the main reason family wealth evaporates isn’t poor investments or bad tax planning. It’s human factors. Their study found that 60% of wealth transfer failures stem from breakdowns in communication and trust within families.

I remember one business owner who shared, “I spent forty years building my business, but I realized I hadn’t spent forty minutes preparing my children to receive it.” This “stewardship gap”—the difference between the technical ability to transfer assets and the human readiness to manage them—is where many families stumble.

Scientific research on communication breakdown reveals a fascinating pattern: families who successfully maintain wealth across multiple generations share one common trait. They’re mission-focused rather than money-focused. They view wealth as a tool for fulfilling shared purpose rather than simply as money to spend.

With increasing longevity meaning more generations alive at once and complex family structures becoming the norm, the need for thoughtful multi-generational wealth planning has never been more important. It’s not just about preserving financial assets—it’s about preserving family harmony, values, and purpose for generations to come.

Why Wealth Disappears Within Three Generations

We’ve all heard the saying “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations.” It’s not just an American phenomenon – this pattern appears across cultures worldwide. In China, people say “富不过三代” (wealth does not pass three generations). Italians have their own version: “Dalle stalle alle stelle alle stalle” (from the stables to the stars and back to the stables).

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This universal truth reveals something profound: building wealth might be challenging, but keeping it across generations? That’s often the greater struggle. Most families see about 70% of their wealth evaporate by the second generation, with a staggering 90% gone by the third. The question is: why does this happen so consistently?

Key Challenges Families Face

The path to preserving wealth is riddled with obstacles that can derail even the best intentions. Family conflict often sits at the heart of wealth dissolution. I’ve seen countless situations where disagreements over who gets what or how the family business should operate create fractures that never heal – taking the family fortune down with them.

Many of my clients find themselves caught in the sandwich generation squeeze, simultaneously supporting aging parents while raising their own children. This double financial burden can drain resources rapidly, with research showing sandwich generation members spend an average of $10,000 annually on elder care alone – not counting what they invest in their children.

Market volatility represents another significant threat. Even substantial wealth can evaporate during economic downturns, especially when portfolios lack proper diversification. Meanwhile, tax drag silently erodes family fortunes, with estate taxes potentially consuming up to 40% of an estate without strategic planning.

The legal complexity surrounding wealth preservation often overwhelms families. Navigating the maze of estate laws, trust structures, and asset protection strategies requires specialized knowledge that most people simply don’t have – and many don’t realize they need until it’s too late.

Most Common Reasons for Failure

When we look at the research, the reasons for wealth disappearance are surprisingly consistent. Trust and communication breakdown accounts for a whopping 60% of wealth transfer failures. When family members don’t openly discuss money matters or harbor unresolved conflicts, both relationships and assets suffer.

About 25% of wealth transfer failures stem from unprepared heirs. This statistic isn’t surprising when you consider that one in four U.S. adults report receiving no financial education from their parents. How can we expect the next generation to preserve wealth when they haven’t been taught how?

Interestingly, technical failures in estate planning documents account for less than 3% of wealth transfer failures. The paperwork is rarely the problem – it’s the people and relationships that determine success or failure.

Values drift between generations creates another significant challenge. Each generation naturally develops its own priorities and worldview. Without intentional effort to connect around core family principles, the cohesion needed to preserve wealth simply disintegrates.

As one of my clients thoughtfully observed after our first meeting: “I realized I’ve spent years teaching my children how to spend money, but almost no time teaching them how to save, invest, or give it away meaningfully.”

Multi-generational wealth planning addresses these challenges head-on, creating a framework where both financial assets and family values can flourish across generations. The goal isn’t just preserving money – it’s preserving the family itself.

Laying a Strong Financial & Tax-Efficient Foundation

When it comes to passing wealth to future generations, the foundation matters more than most families realize. Just like building a house, your family’s financial legacy needs a solid base that can weather economic storms and time itself.

Multi-generational wealth planning begins with embracing financial fundamentals – even for families who’ve already accumulated significant assets. I’ve seen too many wealthy families focus exclusively on complex strategies while neglecting the basics that truly protect wealth over time.

Start with disciplined budgeting. Yes, even affluent families need spending plans! As one client told me, “We never tracked our expenses until we realized our ‘small luxuries’ were actually costing us over $300,000 annually.” Creating clear spending guidelines helps ensure your wealth lasts not just for your lifetime, but for generations.

Next, approach debt strategically. Not all debt is harmful – leverage used to acquire appreciating assets can build wealth – but high-interest consumer debt silently erodes your family’s financial foundation. One family I worked with eliminated $42,000 in annual interest payments simply by restructuring their debt, freeing up capital for their children’s education funds.

Maintaining robust emergency reserves protects you from having to sell investments at inopportune times. Think of these funds as insurance against market downturns – they provide breathing room when markets tumble.

Your investment portfolio should reflect your family’s unique risk capacity – not just risk tolerance. This subtle distinction makes all the difference in preserving wealth across generations. While risk tolerance measures comfort with volatility, risk capacity measures your actual ability to withstand financial setbacks without compromising your long-term goals.

Take advantage of lifetime gifting strategies. The annual gift tax exclusion ($17,000 per recipient in 2023) allows you to transfer significant wealth tax-free during your lifetime. One grandparent I worked with funded 529 college plans for seven grandchildren, removing nearly $1 million from her taxable estate while creating educational opportunities for the next generation.

Consider Roth conversion opportunities during years when your income dips. By converting traditional retirement accounts to Roth accounts, you’re essentially prepaying taxes at today’s rates to secure tax-free growth for your heirs tomorrow. This strategy becomes especially powerful when combined with proper trust planning.

Finally, don’t overlook the protective power of insurance. Well-structured life, disability, and long-term care coverage safeguards your financial foundation against unexpected life events. As one client reflected, “The premium seemed expensive until I realized what my family would lose without it.”

For more comprehensive protection approaches, explore our Asset Protection Planning resources.

Building & Protecting Core Capital

The heart of successful multi-generational wealth planning lies in how you build and protect your family’s core capital – the assets that generate income and growth across generations.

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Think of your portfolio as a garden that needs regular tending. Strategic asset allocation across stocks, bonds, real estate, and alternative investments creates a diverse ecosystem that can thrive in various economic climates. The exact mix should align with your family’s unique time horizon and goals – not just copied from generic models.

Regular portfolio rebalancing maintains your target allocation through disciplined buying and selling. This practice enforces the investor’s golden rule: buy low, sell high. Without this discipline, portfolios naturally drift toward overconcentration in recent winners – precisely the assets most likely to underperform next.

For families with substantial assets, alternative investments like private equity, hedge funds, or managed futures can provide valuable diversification beyond traditional markets. These investments aren’t for everyone, but when used appropriately, they can reduce overall portfolio volatility while enhancing returns.

Don’t underestimate inflation’s silent threat to multigenerational wealth. Inflation protection through real assets like real estate, TIPS (Treasury Inflation-Protected Securities), and certain commodities helps preserve purchasing power over decades. One family I advised maintained wealth through three market crashes by following what I call the “shallow pockets” principle – reinvesting excess cash into productive assets rather than increasing lifestyle spending.

Tax Strategies Across Generations

The tax code presents both challenges and opportunities for multi-generational wealth planning. With thoughtful planning, taxes become a manageable expense rather than a wealth destroyer.

Current estate tax planning deserves special attention. Federal exemptions stand at historically high levels ($12.92 million per individual in 2023) but are scheduled to sunset in 2026 – potentially cutting these thresholds in half. This creates a limited window for significant wealth transfers that may never be available again in your lifetime.

Implement gift tax strategies consistently. Annual exclusion gifts, direct payments for educational and medical expenses, and lifetime exemption planning can transfer significant wealth tax-free. One client systematically gifted business interests to children over a decade, transferring a $30 million enterprise while minimizing gift taxes through careful valuation planning.

Understand the power of step-up in basis. Assets held until death receive a “step-up” in cost basis to fair market value, potentially eliminating capital gains tax for heirs. This creates fascinating planning opportunities around which assets to gift during life versus hold until death.

Consider charitable remainder trusts for assets with significant appreciation. These provide income to family members while ultimately benefiting charity and generating current tax deductions – a triple win for families with philanthropic values.

With the SECURE 2.0 Act, strategic Roth conversions have become even more valuable. For those aged 60-63, catch-up contributions allow up to $11,250 beyond the $23,500 base limit in 2025, creating new opportunities to build tax-free wealth for future generations.

Scientific research on tax-efficient transfers confirms what I’ve seen in practice – families who implement these strategies systematically preserve significantly more wealth across generations than those who treat tax planning as an afterthought.

Legal Structures & Governance Tools for Legacy Preservation

Creating a lasting legacy requires more than just good intentions—it needs the right legal framework to support your family’s vision. Multi-generational wealth planning thrives when built on solid legal foundations custom to your unique family dynamics.

Think of legal structures as the sturdy beams that hold up your family’s legacy house. Without them, even the most beautiful family values and aspirations might collapse under pressure. The most effective structures include wills as your starting point, revocable living trusts that offer flexibility during your lifetime while avoiding probate, and irrevocable trusts that provide robust asset protection and tax advantages.

For families with substantial wealth hoping to extend their legacy further, dynasty trusts can preserve assets across multiple generations—potentially forever in certain states. Family Limited Partnerships (FLPs) and Limited Liability Companies (LLCs) offer additional layers of protection while allowing you to maintain control as you gradually transfer ownership.

Beyond these technical structures, don’t overlook the power of a family constitution—a document that captures your family’s core values and decision-making processes. Paired with a thoughtful statement of intent, these tools help future generations understand not just what you’re leaving them, but why.

For a deeper dive into these essential planning tools, our Estate Planning Services page offers comprehensive guidance custom to your situation.

Selecting & Designing Trusts

Trusts form the backbone of effective multi-generational wealth planning, but choosing the right type makes all the difference in protecting your legacy.

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I often tell clients that trusts are like custom-built homes—they should be designed specifically for your family’s needs, not purchased off-the-shelf. Spendthrift trusts protect assets from both external creditors and a beneficiary’s own imprudent spending habits. For families with special needs members, a special needs trust provides financial support without jeopardizing essential government benefits.

Blended families face unique challenges that QTIP trusts (Qualified Terminable Interest Property) can address by providing for your current spouse while ensuring assets ultimately reach your children from a previous marriage. Many parents worry about the “sudden wealth syndrome” that can derail young heirs—staggered distribution trusts help by releasing assets gradually as beneficiaries mature and demonstrate responsibility.

As one client beautifully put it, “The trust wasn’t just about protecting money—it was about protecting my children from the potential harm of receiving too much, too soon.” This wisdom captures the true purpose behind thoughtful trust design.

Family Governance & Decision-Making Frameworks

Even the most brilliantly crafted legal documents can’t ensure family harmony without effective governance systems. The most successful multi-generational families establish clear processes for making decisions together and resolving inevitable disagreements.

A family council brings different generations and branches together regularly, creating a forum for open discussion about shared assets and values. This council works best when guided by a thoughtfully crafted family mission statement that articulates your collective purpose and vision for the future.

Clear voting rules prevent confusion and conflict when important decisions arise. Some matters might require unanimous consent, while others only a simple majority. Equally important are established conflict resolution protocols that provide a roadmap for addressing disagreements before they escalate into damaging disputes.

I’ve witnessed remarkable changes in families who commit to governance. One three-generation family I work with meets quarterly to review investments, plan philanthropic activities, and—perhaps most importantly—educate younger members about financial stewardship. Their formalized yet flexible approach has transformed potential conflicts into opportunities for deeper connection and shared purpose.

For more guidance on building effective family governance systems, our Family Governance & Legacy Leadership page offers practical frameworks you can adapt to your family’s unique dynamics.

Educating Heirs & Fostering Transparent Communication

When family wealth crumbles, it rarely happens because of poor investments or weak legal structures. The Williams Group study revealed a startling truth: 60% of wealth transfer failures stem from breakdowns in trust and communication. This makes heir education and open dialogue the unsung heroes of successful multi-generational wealth planning.

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Multi-Generational Wealth Planning Education Programs

I’ve seen the difference that thoughtful heir preparation makes. One family I worked with transformed their reluctant, financially disinterested teenagers into engaged stewards by following a graduated approach that honored each child’s readiness.

The journey begins with age-appropriate lessons as early as kindergarten—simple concepts about saving, spending, and giving that plant the seeds of financial responsibility. As children grow, mentorship becomes invaluable, with older family members sharing insights about the family business or investment principles in real-time, real-life situations.

Many successful families create hands-on opportunities through internships in the family business or involvement in their philanthropic foundation. These experiences build confidence and competence far more effectively than lectures ever could.

Formal education matters too. Whether through specialized courses, workshops, or degree programs, structured learning provides the technical knowledge that complements practical experience. The most successful families I’ve counseled gradually increase their heirs’ financial responsibilities as they demonstrate readiness—perhaps managing a small portfolio before handling larger assets.

As one client beautifully put it: “We didn’t just give our children fish; we didn’t just teach them to fish; we taught them to think like fishermen.”

For more custom resources on preparing the next generation, visit our Raising Minors Rich page, where we offer age-specific guidance for families with young heirs.

Open Dialogue & Transparency

Money talk remains taboo in many households—even wealthy ones. NBC reported that parents are more comfortable discussing drugs, sex, and politics with their children than family finances. This silence creates a dangerous knowledge gap that undermines multi-generational wealth planning.

Breaking this pattern requires intentional communication practices. Regular family meetings create a structured space to discuss financial matters, business updates, and philanthropic initiatives. These gatherings shouldn’t feel like corporate boardrooms—the most effective ones balance serious discussion with elements that strengthen family bonds.

Transparent reporting builds trust and understanding. While you needn’t share every financial detail with young children, appropriate information shared at the right time helps heirs develop financial literacy and appreciation for the family’s resources.

Creating safe spaces for difficult conversations matters enormously. When family members feel judged for asking questions, communication shuts down. One family I work with has a “no stupid questions” rule during their financial discussions, which has transformed their dynamics completely.

Perhaps most powerfully, shared family stories connect financial assets to human values. When heirs understand not just what the family has, but how it was earned and what purpose it serves, they’re more likely to become responsible stewards.

Scientific research on money talks confirms that families who discuss finances openly raise children who handle wealth more responsibly. Technology has made this easier than ever, with many families using secure digital platforms to share documents, educational resources, and even recorded family stories across generations.

One family I counsel holds an annual three-day retreat combining financial education, business updates, and purely fun activities. Their patriarch recently told me, “These meetings transformed our family. What was once taboo is now discussed openly, and my children understand not just what we have, but why we have it and what it’s for.”

This combination of education and communication doesn’t just preserve financial capital—it builds the human and intellectual capital that truly sustains family legacies across generations.

Succession, Philanthropy & Adapting to Change

When it comes to multi-generational wealth planning, the journey doesn’t end with setting up trusts or educating heirs. The real magic happens when families successfully steer business transitions, accept philanthropy, and adapt to life’s inevitable changes.

Business Succession Planning

Family businesses represent more than just assets—they’re often the heartbeat of a family’s legacy. Yet many business owners spend decades building their companies while postponing the critical conversation about “what’s next.”

“I built this business with my own two hands,” one client told me. “The thought of letting go felt like giving up a part of myself.” This sentiment is common, but delaying succession planning can put everything at risk.

Effective succession planning requires four key elements:

First, you’ll need a clear ownership transition strategy. Will family members take the reins, or might key employees or external buyers be better suited? One family I worked with realized their children had different passions and created a hybrid approach—the daughter who loved the business became CEO while her siblings received other assets of equivalent value.

Second, leadership development can’t happen overnight. The most successful transitions involve years of mentorship, gradually increasing responsibility, and honest feedback. The next generation needs time to develop both skills and confidence.

Third, business valuation establishes not just fair market value for tax purposes, but helps ensure equitable distribution among heirs. Without proper valuation, perceived favoritism can fracture family relationships permanently.

Finally, contingency planning prepares for the unexpected—disability, premature death, or market disruptions that might force an unplanned transition.

The European glass-making family Riedel offers a remarkable example of succession done right. Through 11 generations, they’ve maintained their legacy by aligning around innovation and artistry rather than just profit. Each generation has both honored tradition and brought fresh perspective.

For more comprehensive guidance on planning your business transition, our Strategic Wealth Transfer resources provide valuable direction.

Role of Philanthropy in Legacy

Philanthropy isn’t just something wealthy families do—it’s often what keeps them wealthy, united, and purposeful across generations.

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I’ve witnessed how shared giving creates bonds that financial assets alone never could. When families give together, they’re forced to articulate what matters most to them—a process that reinforces shared family values and creates common purpose.

Beyond the emotional benefits, philanthropic vehicles like donor-advised funds and private foundations offer significant tax efficiency. One client reduced their estate tax exposure by millions while creating a permanent charitable legacy that will outlive them by generations.

Perhaps most powerfully, philanthropy provides the perfect training ground for next generation engagement. I work with a family that allocates a portion of their foundation’s annual giving to be directed by teenage family members. These young people research causes, make presentations to the family, and learn to think critically about impact—all while developing decision-making skills they’ll need to manage larger assets later.

“Our foundation meetings are the only time all three generations sit at the same table with equal voices,” one patriarch told me. “The conversations about giving have opened doors to deeper discussions about purpose, values, and what our wealth is ultimately for.”

This approach creates a legacy beyond wealth—impact that continues long after financial assets might have dissipated.

Reviewing & Measuring Success

How do you know if your multi-generational wealth planning is working? The answer lies in regular review and thoughtful measurement.

Most families focus exclusively on financial metrics, but true success encompasses much more. The most effective families establish Key Performance Indicators (KPIs) for both financial performance and family cohesion.

While tracking net worth growth across generations is important, equally valuable is measuring how many family members have achieved financial independence through education, entrepreneurship, or prudent management of inherited assets.

Mission alignment assessments help determine whether family activities still reflect stated values and purpose. One family I advise conducts annual reviews of their investment portfolio, business operations, and philanthropic giving to ensure all three align with their documented values of environmental sustainability and community development.

Regular family surveys provide crucial feedback on governance effectiveness and overall satisfaction. These can reveal brewing conflicts before they erupt into major problems.

The most successful multi-generational families don’t just measure financial returns—they track family harmony, knowledge transfer to younger generations, adaptation to changing laws, and philanthropic impact.

“What gets measured gets managed,” as Peter Drucker said. I recommend annual reviews of your wealth plan with more comprehensive reassessments every 3-5 years or following significant family events like births, marriages, deaths, or major tax law changes.

Multi-generational wealth planning isn’t a destination but a journey. The families who succeed are those who remain flexible, communicate openly, and never lose sight of the purpose behind their wealth.

Frequently Asked Questions about Multi-Generational Wealth Planning

What is the best age to start multi-generational wealth planning?

The perfect time to begin multi-generational wealth planning isn’t tied to a specific birthday milestone—it’s simply now. Whether you’re just starting your career or enjoying retirement, taking action today creates ripples that benefit generations to come.

Your approach will naturally evolve with your life stage. Young families in their 30s and 40s should focus on building that essential foundation—establishing core capital, creating basic estate documents, and introducing age-appropriate money concepts to little ones. I’ve seen parents successfully use allowances and savings jars with children as young as five to plant those first financial seeds.

For established families in their 50s and 60s, it’s time to implement more sophisticated structures. This is when many of my clients begin establishing trusts, formalizing how the family makes decisions together, and actively mentoring the next generation in wealth stewardship.

Those in their 70s and beyond often shift focus to finalizing transfer plans, documenting family stories that communicate values (not just assets), and serving as mentors to younger generations.

As one particularly wise client told me with a smile, “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second-best time is today.” The same wisdom applies perfectly to legacy planning.

How do we balance the needs of the sandwich generation?

Being squeezed between caring for aging parents while supporting children creates unique challenges for today’s sandwich generation. This juggling act requires thoughtful multi-generational wealth planning to maintain balance.

First, remember the airplane oxygen mask principle—secure your own financial foundation before helping others. This isn’t selfish; it’s practical. You can’t support multiple generations if your own financial security crumbles.

Work collaboratively with your parents on essential documents like healthcare directives and powers of attorney. Many families I’ve counseled find that having these conversations early, before a crisis, makes implementation much smoother when they’re actually needed.

For your children’s needs, leverage tax-advantaged vehicles like 529 plans that allow education funds to grow tax-free. I’ve seen many clients successfully balance competing priorities by setting clear boundaries on what they will fund (perhaps undergraduate education but not graduate school).

Some families find creative solutions in multi-generational housing arrangements. One family I work with renovated their home to include an in-law suite, reducing overall housing costs while improving care for an aging parent with early dementia.

Research shows sandwich generation caregivers typically spend around $10,000 annually on elder care while simultaneously funding their children’s education or launching them into adulthood. Without strategic planning, these competing demands can derail retirement savings and create significant stress.

The most successful families I counsel maintain open communication through regular family meetings where both older and younger generations align expectations and resources. These conversations aren’t always easy, but they’re essential for navigating this complex life stage with grace.

How often should a wealth plan be reviewed and updated?

Multi-generational wealth planning isn’t a “set it and forget it” document that gathers dust on a shelf—it’s a living strategy that requires regular attention to stay relevant and effective.

I recommend my clients establish a rhythm of annual reviews to assess investment performance, evaluate tax strategies, and confirm insurance coverage still matches their needs. This yearly check-in helps catch small issues before they become major problems.

Every two years, take a deeper dive into your legal documents. Laws change, family circumstances evolve, and what worked perfectly when your children were minors may need adjustment now that they’re adults with families of their own.

Life events should trigger immediate reviews—don’t wait for your annual meeting if you experience a birth, death, marriage, divorce, business sale, or relocation. These transitions often require prompt adjustments to your strategy.

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Tax legislation should similarly prompt a review. When substantial tax laws change (as they did in 2017 and likely will again when current provisions sunset in 2026), your existing strategies may need recalibration to remain optimal.

One family I’ve worked with for over a decade schedules what they playfully call their “wealth summit” every December. They bring together their entire advisory team—attorney, CPA, and financial advisor—to review the past year and plan for the coming one. This regular rhythm keeps their plan current and their family aligned on both financial goals and deeper values.

Multi-generational wealth planning works best when it evolves alongside your family, adapting to new circumstances while remaining true to your core values and mission.

Conclusion

Building a legacy that lasts isn’t just about smart investments or complex legal structures – it’s about creating something meaningful that reflects your family’s deepest values. Effective multi-generational wealth planning weaves together several essential elements into a cohesive whole.

Think of your family wealth plan as a mix. The financial strategies form the foundation, providing stability through tax-efficient approaches that preserve what you’ve built. The legal structures act as the framework, offering protection custom-fitted to your family’s unique situation. Your family governance system serves as the pattern, guiding how decisions flow and conflicts resolve. The education of your heirs represents the vibrant colors, bringing the next generation’s potential to life through careful preparation. And running through it all is open communication – the golden thread that holds everything together.

I’ve seen how families who succeed across generations understand a profound truth: your bank accounts aren’t your most valuable assets. Your true wealth lies in the values you instill, the knowledge you share, and the bonds you nurture between family members.

One client who steerd a complex three-generation wealth transfer told me something I’ll never forget: “The money was just a tool. What really mattered was the vision we created together for what that money could accomplish.” Those words capture the essence of what makes multi-generational wealth planning truly successful.

Your plan isn’t a static document gathering dust on a shelf. It’s a living blueprint that requires regular review and adaptation as circumstances, laws, and family dynamics evolve. The families who thrive through multiple generations are those who remain flexible while staying true to their core principles.

At our firm, we believe that true legacy planning isn’t just about passing on wealth—it’s about passing on wisdom. Our integrated approach helps families create lasting legacies that stand the test of time, preserving not just financial assets but also the values and vision that make your family unique.

As you continue your journey of creating a meaningful legacy, the path isn’t always straight, but the destination—a family united by shared purpose and equipped for stewardship—is well worth the effort.

For more insights on maintaining wealth across generations, visit our resource center on maintaining wealth.

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